279 Perfect-Love
279_Perfect-Love
Dedicated to M.W.
What is perfect love?
Is it sex?
Is it a confidant?
Is it to say so?
Is it to cling on with dear faith?
Is it to inspire?
It could be all of the above.
Firstly, we need to study different forms of love, they are the following/
Platonic, Sexy, Flirtatious, Lonely, Desperate & Dangerous, Suffocating, Stifling, Clinging, Smothering, Real, Holy, True, & Perfect Love.
Really these are the parts of the sum of Gestalt Love, that we all have experienced with various partners.
But I am looking for Perfect Love, a more spiritual and Holy commitment.
In the Bible it is referenced as the following.
1 John 4:18 NKJ
There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear: because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.
So, it is clear it rids us of fear, and this is interesting, because we believe there is a type for us, but we tend to go through past questions, if it is someone we have met before. Really think about the effect you have on people. Some of the best memories were made with them, but I have just noted I have never lived with a perfect love but had many; on my terms as I believed it to be a way to love, to follow, to intuit, to surprise, to treat religiously like a Queen. So, maybe that is where I have gone wrong, to overdote. So, we return to the Bible for another translation.
1 John 4:18 GOD’S WORD®
No fear exists where his love is. Rather, perfect love gets rid of fear, because fear involves punishment. The person who lives in fear doesn’t have perfect love.
We must therefore have trust and faith in God, as I do, and see each day as a chance to improve on ourselves, by making our requirements, simpler, and of today, where we are politically, and societally bound by God to move us and our friends forward, in order to loosen them.
On the other side of the coin is the trick you do not want to fall for, called ‘Clinging Love’,
That is the only one we will extrapolate but covered by many of the worst types of love, as above; they come under this overall title. It is the sister or brother of your ex-partner, whether blood related or not. The seducer, the temptress, and the idol. Not spiritual, or holy, nor friendly, but desperate. Someone loved by the first woman or man you thought was perfect, and often dumped by their friend, you first loved, so you both are relative to them to pick up the pieces. We can always go on platonically loving the Women, & Men we had, but to be righteous in love, we must be pure and blameless, and so without fighting, cupid (God or Jesus) for me, will show me the light and love to my partner and I, chosen by him, not in circumstance, but circumstantial only to me.
Our beliefs are the same, we are attracted to each other, we are in love, and we can communicate. Old love seems past it and past itself as a holism of proper love. But to carry on loving them the straight way may help them to accept misgivings of the past.
In our new perfect love we are no-longer children, but children of God, and must explain the full depth of each other’s story in order that we live life briskly forwards, getting rid of past anguish, and settling in our heavens nest to the sound of children and a slower pace to life. It includes ‘how to love’, and that is why my perfect love and I connect so well together; for there will be no fear nor punishment when we are together, no fear from the World, just plain simplicity in trust, and a strong faith in God.
AMEN
