148 Protégé

148_Protégé

“Planet Earth and humanity need you. They need you, and that is why you are here.”[i]

What do we need to prepare for a party? When we are cooking, we must prepare our food types. As an Architect, I must prepare my working drawings, to understand the aesthetics of construction. For reading a book we must psychologically prepare ourselves to give focus to the text and absorb important concepts and facts.

All psychological problems stem from doing tasks we do not want to do. We enjoy being needed, preparing, and sharing with others. Taking the onus probandi, off ourselves, as if it were a chore. It is a part of the human condition to prepare together, as a team. But teams come and go until we are settled with someone: a partner, to rely on – or, a group of friends who click together, or both. At the same time some are lonely and feel needy for comparison, so, how can we eradicate that neediness. Can we do it all alone? With some self-analysis. There is a danger we will lose our past and enter a fight to achieve alone. And so, we feel quite selfish to enjoy the fruits of our labours. Does that make us prudish? Does some form of sex & the sharing of bodies happen between friends: the sharing of hearts and minds: i.e., love, when we do tasks together? To be alone and needy can feel aggressive because we do not have others encouragement to push our own free will. So, what would be a better way to look at this attribute of dependency in us. But to want in desire: a friendship, & an abundance of friends. Magnetically attract others to us, we need to want them to be in our clan, without sharing the anguish of loneliness, because we were born to be together.

Maybe magnetism is utter humility, not to rise as better than another, but to know we are just as others are, that we are all someone in this world. But remember not to open to those who do not care, it is just a misunderstanding to feel stifled or put upon. So, when they play it back: they will all be with you. Star struck not to approach you, when that is all, you want, as a talented individual with human emotional needs. Someone seen to lead the way, is left up front lonely and cold to warm the climate for the rest. So, do stars, go with stars? We all must walk to the shop. Status tends to be down more to money these days, and unfortunately that is scarce. Unless educated, and well read, then we can more quickly climb the ranks and build a life for our own family, and see the efforts our parents went to, so God bless them for an eternity, because, while we are constantly criticising their lack of expansion to the way we see the World, our hearts and minds are continually kept strong by their blessings on us, and so, we have to thank them, in all kindness.

Psychology goes a long way to explain the victim, witness, and accuser, triangle, for which we all have been fixing each other within our pilot families, arguments, tantrums, and forgiveness. We are at the end of the day all happy with our outcomes and go on growing, however jealous we may be as siblings, in the competitive grasp for knowledge of today. Without doubt, we should see the potential in each other, and not dwell on our own problems, because our real dependency is on our own heart and mind to resolve our own dependencies and failings. How is the best way to prepare, other than journaling, and making our “SORRY” known, because we need to get it right this time. A fairer party is one everyone agrees on, everyone adheres to, everyone gets the most from. It could be a World Party, and so, we should let talent shine, and take on under-studies, to improve our skills, of operation, and making love-create.

Dependency then is fine, if we know who we are dependant on, and how we go about telling them. If they were a past inspiration, it will be no surprise that they will crop up again and again in our minds, to pervade a deeper meaning to our work, and reliability on standing up straight ready for the next phase.

We must begin to re-phrase dependant as protégé, like an apprentice, your under-study. We are all learning.

God Bless you.

AB x

[i] Byrne, Rhonda, The Secret (Daily Teachings), Simon & Schuster UK Ltd, 2013, ‘Day 30’.