308 Controlling

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Controlling people eventually have to give in and let the work speak for itself. Sanctions are a new control in government feeling hemmed in by tradition of recent times yet avoiding the autonomy of human rights in alternative choices, of a pre-history, the natural way. We see this particularly in medicine. While having the lump cut out makes sense, there are other positive ways of healing these tumours to remission, and yet something like the Mental Health Act is law to govern strange robotic folk, until normalised again by their deeper selves, doing self-study and psychological impasse.

The owner of control must let go of it, to become a wise knowing person of old, to avoid discursive annoyance, which may have been the reason for controlling others in the first place. This is more about demonstrating than control, rather than showing which we studied in ‘show’, under literature here. But showing helps the very young to grasp basic needs and functions. To take heed of life’s knowing can invigorate the soul of equity and the spirit of God inside, not to even think, nor describe the anxieties of negativity, but to experience.

There are pitfalls to control, unless we are hidden. Then we can control another at a distance, like a backstabbing friend, to feel the fakery of running someone with knowledge we may not tangibly connect with or see in awe. This allows the assailant to use the victim of knowledge, but they can never get the upper hand, it does go on, but the more awareness we gather, the better. So, really believe in those who have got your back and who care for you wholeheartedly, these are your real friends and family.

We are really a loving family of seeming tribes, and some with titles. But the only ‘EL’ is Jesus Christ, the first name, and the son of God. There are times we forget the importance of this title, particularly in prayer. Life is short in the essence of things, so always pray for a good life, however bad it has been, it will get better, lessons learnt and finally salvation in a perfect set-up, with our own family is important to us. It is time in our middle ages, to procreate in holy sanctum, and to build a sanctuary for our children.

It is not to control a growing child, but to guide them, and at this point in our life, is when we stop being so controlling of others. To guide their expressions, of all senses and emotions is a beautiful experience. And for them to express themselves is a sign of self-control, to learn. So, we have gone full cycle, by the time we have children, we are back to nature and nurture. But be careful not to become overly controlling when they are old enough to decide for themselves, to fulfil their dreams, it is just a matter of planning. Otherwise, those dreams are lost, and shameless vanity will take over.

We are not here to control others, but co-relate our skills, since everyone is in a complex web of mentoring others.

Love AB X

AMEN